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Martial
Arts Meet the Board Room
Prepared
by Eric J. Spirtas
January
27, 2006
FIRST DAYS “ SEEKING AN EDUCATION"
As a studying
Martial Artist, striving for Black-Belt¯ status, I clearly recognize
that which has been bestowed upon me. I have been exposed
to and seized an opportunity to join an elite group. This
special community feels like a private club that offers me both;
a psychological escape from my work day while I still manage to
development my inner state of mind.
Having
initially joined the Kirkwood Tracy's Karate Studio in 1982, during
high school, I decided to begin my karate studies, merely for self
defense. I took an eighteen year sabbatical and returned once
I had fully engaged in my adult business career during mid 2001.
I took
to the school again as if I had never been gone. I am not
certain when I recognized that my re-involvement with; Martial Arts
and Chinese Kenpo by way of Tracy's Karate of Kirkwood, had entered
my system like an irremovable venom but I am certain now that I
am wholly affected by it all. I have selected a school and
earned my way on to a World Class¯ competition team. The words
"World Class"¯ must not to be taken lightly.
The leadership
offered by those around me for the many years I have studied has
been unending, and through that I have gained an overwhelming amount
of knowledge, courage and poise during my quest to become a first
degree black belt, national champion, successful father, caring
husband, and an accomplished businessman. As I reach this level
I recognize I am undertaking a life long ambition.
Have the
days and hours in the Do-Jo positively affected more than my health
and mind? Absolutely! I have learned to craft every
business dealing on the same principles that I have learned in the
Karate Game¯.
PREPARATION
/ PERSPIRATION WORK IN THE CLASS ROOM AND RING
Grade school,
high school, college, and the family business; are we assured success
if we go to school and come from a family of accomplished business
persons?
Karate
lessons, group classes and belt presentations, does this make us
a great martial artist; are we guaranteed ability to battle and
compete at the highest level if we are associated with a school
that has nationally ranked competitors?
We are
taught to study in school, but that does not guarantee success in
the business world.
We are
taught techniques, forms, and point sparring in class, but that
is not what assures top ranking at our age or level.
In both
venues, we must know our topic, our domain, and every component
associated with that ensuing battle¯. In business presentations
or combative fighting, we must have a plan and a contingent strategy
in case our opponent is as well equipped, able to adjusted or possibly
simply better than us.
In my family
business, I was taught a trade, in my karate experience I was taught
an art. In both my business and in the arena of tournament
competitive forms, weapons demonstration and fighting, I have found
progress by seeking out those experts¯ that can see the real prize.
By finding a mentor¯ and modeling their actions, I too can maximize
my ability. The trust award is not a trophy or a contract,
but more like a life long skill and ability that is only available
after unspeakably hard work and training. Knowledge and experience!
This can be used forever at any moment in or out of the Board Room
and Ring!
For a successful
presentation or victory at the heat of battle, regimented study
must occur. Practice, review, critique, and exact execution
are what enable the contender in Business or the Ring¯. To spend
time studying and mastering a specialty requires a focus on the
essence of what one is trying to accomplish. We know when
we are ready to try our skill, and we are certain when the training
has paid off.
TIME
TO BATTLE - DON'T EVER NEVER-EVER ¯ DUCK THE COMPETITION!
From the
moment you arrive in the stadium or boardroom you consider
your competition. You think about what they have that you
don't have. You think about what they know that you don't
know, or whether they will surprise you or even sabotage your effort
with a secret weapon. Are they better conditioned, better
trained, more experienced?
It comes
down to the moment on the line or at the podium. Face to face
with your competition or customer. It is time to perform that
which you have prepared for mentally and physically. Your
speech, report, your routine is ready€¦and then you must attack
as it has been practiced and planned, that is when you deliver.
It is decision
time, time for quick and effective choices, keeping it together,
with a calm resolve, thus focusing effort on success, not personal
sabotage or internal destruction.
During
the Battle¯ there is the inner voice that speaks from within, but
coupled with the private messages you struggle to understand and
respond to in any encounter, the other sound that of your coach,
mentor, and guide in life, must be heard. The voice is there
and you must train yourself to hear it! One voice from within
and one voice from the sideline; two voices with the same mission,
trained to work in unison. You say go and that is when the
first word or first punch establishes the mood and the basis of
what is to come or what is to be made of the competition.
You will
not win every exchange, you cannot expect to know every response,
but the successful business person, competitor, knows how to adjust,
and when it is time to change the approach.
The fight
experience with words or fists, separates us from most, and engages
us with a few.
The Signs
of a Winner¯
THE
HIGHEST LEVEL
Over the
last few years I have engaged in business all around the nation
with some individuals that dwarf my experience and capacity.
In karate competition I have also traveled the nation and competed
with individuals that too eclipse my understanding and power.
Despite the level of competition or challenge, I have managed to
find success.
In fact,
it was the strength gained through a combination of training for
and participating in karate tournaments in the world of Local¯ and
National¯ competition that built my inner force, enabling a life
decision to leave my family's 50 year old business, and start my
own company. Only from the training started in the Do-Jo,
could I have gained the patience and depth to step out on my own.
This was not an unstudied thought, but more so a necessary step
for personal peace and a brightened future. I feel most centered
through my steady karate training.
In both
worlds; of business and karate, I have found myself working with
individuals that were; older, younger, smarter, less wise, more
experienced, less knowledgeable, selfish, selfless. I met those
that had nothing to offer and others that had everything to offer.
At times I have learned and followed, and in other times I have
taught and led, both experiences aid in crafting my attitude and
understanding of people, business and my ability.
I feel
that I have built an industrial armor from my experience in the
Do-Jo.
That is
my take home value and what I use everyday.
THE
TRUEST COMPARISON
As a black
belt I am reminded of the Lewis System¯ titled the Key Sparring
Principles. As I study these very basic concepts, I recognize
immediately that these too are Key Business Principles.
In a simple
comparison:
DISTANCE
Distance
is the first thing to watch for when trying to teach someone to
fight. Proximity too is important in Business. One must recognize
individual space and what is appropriate when talking and negotiating.
Whether you touch an arm or move closer or away form your audience
for emphasis, each movement sets the tone of what it is you are
saying.
TIMING
The
offensive fighter mostly uses timing. What they are looking for
is the defensive fighter to become unset. Timing, insofar as;
arrival, verbal delivery, facial expression and tone are all basic
to the success of a speech or presentation. Incorrect delivery,
to slow or fast, and the best information can lose value.
BEING
ON THE LINE WITH A PLAN
When
you learn your distance you must try not to be on the line without
a plan of attack. The defensive fighter should try to keep
the offensive fighter from being on the line. A wise business
person never stands on the stage or at the podium without having
a clear and tried plan. Even the most prepared presenter or
sales person stands at risk without a basic plan of action in front
of the customer.
VARY
YOUR DEFENSE
When
a fighter can vary their defense by direction such as going in,
fading out or going off angle will create hesitation and usually
make your opponent attack from to far. Know your company, its
history, and all of its ups and downs, so nobody can put you in
a position of discomfort. A simple comment against the firm
you represent, or the product you endorse can throw you in a tail
spin if you are not prepared to calmly and respectfully counter
and respond.
ACTION
CREATES REACTION
You
are always creating reactions from your opponent. Try to use
this against them. A good presentation provokes thought and
related interpretations. This will inevitably lead to a further
conversation, good questions and project interaction that can lead
to a favorable close.
EVALUATE
MATCHES AHEAD OF TIME
Realize
what you want, a high scoring match or a low scoring match.
What will be considered success, a single sale or a massive sale?
Set your sites on a delivery that result in the outcome of your
desire, and be sure you can deliver what you sell.
CONTROL
THE FIGHT
You must
always want to control who is on offense and who is on defense.
You must also know where the line is and control who is on it.
You always want to fight like you fight rather than fight how your
opponent wants you to fight. This is why you would want to
be a balanced fighter. Respectfully and tactfully control the meeting.
By preparing a clear and intelligent agenda, one can lead the meeting
without offending the client or audience. Know the limits
of the interaction and have skills to bring the topics back to the
essence of the meeting. If a presenter allows the meeting
and the discussion to go astray, a missed conclusion or a negative
result could occur.
KNOW
YOUR ARSENAL
By knowing
your arsenal well, you will have fewer unset moments. Know
what you have instantly from both sides, defensively and offensively.
Know your product and service. Have an understanding of the
success and failures of the items you sell. Be prepared to
debate with the most skeptical buyer or the most unknowledgeable
heckler.
KNOW
YOUR BREAD AND BUTTER TECHNIQUE
You must
have at least one goto technique. It is nice to have one off
both sides. This is only offensive for when you are down or
tied and time is running out and you feel you must score now. When
the client is ready to buy, you sell. Know the time and act
quickly to get the order. Don't oversell, or talk your client
out of a sale.
THROW
ALL WEAPONS CORRECTLY
Have your
weapons down so you don't have to think about how to throw it or
when. When you throw it you know it will be perfect. Speech
giving, selling, or negotiating all rely on having a way to come
back with a comment, change directions of the conversation, and
drive down on the bargain at the right time. That requires
the use of several communication weapons that must be used correctly.
VISUALIZE
Watch other
fighters and visualize fighting them. This can show you how
to fight them and give you a clear view of the openings. It
will also slow down the fight for you. By studying the audience,
it is simple to pick out the individuals that are truly engaged,
and the ones that want to go home¯. By watching the way that
the group acts and interacts, a prudent deliverer can seek eye contact,
head nodding¯ or a clearer acknowledgment as he delivers his presentation.
It is about
learning, practicing and succeeding. That is what this group,
team and system promotes. I am blessed to be a part of it.
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